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Relationships 101: Why Does My Co-Worker Hate Me?
Submitted by Jennifer Tardy on August 27, 2010 - 1:00am
Have you been tasked to work with someone who makes your life miserable although you've done absolutely nothing wrong? Do you come to work in a good mood, but being in the presence of this one co-worker seems to drain all of your energy, immediately? Well this blog is JUST for you. Here's one surprising insight and a whole lot of tips to mediate this drama so that you can get back to working together in no time.Surprising Insight: How your co-worker treats you (i.e. speaks to you, acts around you, behaves toward you) has more to do with them that it has ever had to do with you.
You Probably Don't Miss Him. You Miss Who You Thought He Was.
Submitted by Jennifer Tardy on August 25, 2010 - 1:00am
Break-ups are one of life’s toughest challenges. Disconnecting yourself from someone you’ve loved, the plans you’ve made, and the life you’ve created doesn’t get any easier, even when you get older. But something that I’m noticing is that there’s a trend occurring. The more I’ve been able to talk one on one with women who are dealing in heartache and confusion. Many of them are holding on to something very similar—an image of their now ex.Now, what do I mean by an image?
When you walk away from a relationship, I’m sure you agree that no one can take that deep memory of your former love away from you, right?
3 Things Single, Black, Females (30+) Do That Cause Men to Not Commit
Dear HEET,
It seems that society has created such a stigma with being a female who is 30+, black, and single. Some people say that it’s our fault. So, I want to ask each of you. What are the top three things that single, black females over the age of 30 do that causes men to go from heavily pursuing us to not wanting to commit at all?
-Miss SBF
Phantom Says: I don’t know that it’s society that has created such a stigma, as opposed to the women who fall into this particular category have manifested it for themselves. The mind can play some funny tricks on a person at times and we as people are what we think we are. A lot of times women in their 30’s who are single and African American, find themselves getting older and desiring more out of their lives.
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