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Losing A Connection to Find Love
Submitted by Jennifer Tardy on May 5, 2010 - 1:00amTo some degree, our relationships are no different than Sandra Bullock’s. Sure, we may not have access movie directors, stylists, agents and million-dollar contracts. Most people don’t! But one of the places where we are all very similar is that we are extremely connected to those we love most: our children, friends, and especially our significant others. In this regard, where it matters most, we are all pretty much the same. We show love, receive it, become comfortable with it, and start making more plans for it to continue. And then something unexpected happens. Someone wants out of this connection, someone’s actions shattered the foundation for the connection, and ultimately, someone ruined everything!
We all risk waking up one morning disconnected—literally!
the H.E.E.T. Answers Continued...
the H.E.E.T. Continued...
Zeek says - I don’t believe men really prepare themselves for marriage, don’t think anyone can for that matter if they have not experienced it themselves. It is more of a natural progression that we just some get to, and some don’t…… probably the biggest sign, is that they put their woman first!
Phantom says: This is a tricky situation. Have you discussed the thought of marriage with him? Just because a man places himself in the whims of a committed relationship does not mean that he is ready to marry. Marriage is a huge step for most men. There is no clear cut way that a man prepares himself for such a step.
Never Listen to Advice Based in Personal Fear!
Submitted by Jennifer Tardy on April 27, 2010 - 1:00amYou’ve met them in your family, your circle of friends—your co-workers. They are everywhere and they are very VOCAL. These are the people who love to give you advice. They sit back and wait for you to confide in them so that they can tell you what they think—and boy they don’t hold back, do they? Now, don’t get me wrong, in reality, advice is fine. I am a firm believer that anything based in love can only be good for people. Advice based in love is very good and needed (when solicited).
Now, the issue is when people give you advice based in their own fear! They warn you to stay away from a thing or idea because they are afraid of it. This is the person you meet more often than the alternative.
Breaking Up is Hard to Do
Submitted by Jennifer Tardy on April 19, 2010 - 1:00amWhether it’s Sandra Bullock and Jesse James (this year), Jill Scott and John Roberts (last year), your favorite “go-to” couple for a double date (last week), or yourself and your beau (yesterday)—old news or recent, celebrity or dear friends, it all remains the same—breaking up is still one of the hardest things to do.
I’m currently considering a new title regarding breaking-up and the reasons why it’s so difficult. As I’m composing the content and organizing chapter titles, I couldn’t help but to think about how connected each of us are. In some manner we are all sincerely connected to the next person, whether they are family, friends, co-workers, neighbors, females—humans. Being connected is such a natural feeling. Moving closer to another, getting to know someone, becoming personal, even intimate—is a natural feeling.
Everything to Me - Monica
Submitted by Jennifer Tardy on April 6, 2010 - 9:18pmBoy if you ever left my,
My side,
It’d be like taking the sun from
The sky
I’d probably die without
You in
My life
Cause I need you to
Shine, shine
Your light
oooohhhhhhh
You're everything to me, heey
The air that I breathe, oohhh
My sight so I see, oh lord
You’re everything to me
I can&r
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His Ingredient Label Reviews
Womensselfesteem.com highly recommends: 'His Ingredient Label' as an excellent knowledge base and resource for all women, single or otherwise, in the fact that we never graduate from the school of life including relationships. It has been proven over time that we learn more effectively by example...let this book be your example to learn from. Awareness, preparation and knowledge have always been the keys to any successful relationship~"
-www.WomensSelfEsteem.com - Dorothy Lafrinere
"Very interesting concept and the excerpts from childhood and up---are amazing...I like the book, it makes a lot of sense!"
-Resa
“J.M. Tardy touched on topics and issues that seemed to be talking to me…and I kicked myself when she mentioned, the “cigarette man”…you know, the one that is CLEARLY no good for you?! The author’s perspective was fresh and on point. I recommend this book to women of ALL ages.”
- Ravenna
"Reading Jennifer Tardy's book His Ingredient Label is like talking to your most sensible girlfriend. Women addicted to 'junk food men' will find the book serves up a healthy portion of common sense that can help them recognize their habits and make better choices in the future."
-Olive L. Sullivan, editor, Sullivan Ink.
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