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Products of our environment
Submitted by Jennifer Tardy on September 9, 2009 - 1:50pmAs a matter of fact… for as long as I can remember, we have been products of our environment…but then something changed.
It changed all of us. One day, we all became adults; too old to continue to hide behind that excuse. At that moment, our environments became the products of the decisions we made.
I say that to say this, never be upset with the next person for doing what you haven’t done because you didn’t have the:
· time,
· energy,
· focus,
· patience,
· discipline,
· Etc. Etc Etc…
…to do what they’ve done. It’s not their fault.
In turn, understand that if the next person is upset for your success, it is only because you’ve made them recognize that they haven’t dedicated the:
· time,
· energy,
· focus,
· patience,
· discipline,
· Etc. Etc Etc…
…into doing what you’ve done. Just keep doing you!
For those negative people out there, just remember that the reason surrounding what you didn’t do, has nothing to do with the next person’s success. You, too, can change your environment by changing your decisions, and if you are this “toxic person,” you’ve also got to change your attitude. Wherever you are is not where you have to stay. Get focused. I know that I am.


