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Why do I feel uneasy in my relationship?
Ms. Uneasy,
This is such a difficult place to be while within a relationship. Hopefully, below, I can help you get to the root of your angst. There could be three possible reasons for your uneasiness in your relationship:
First, it could simply be your nature to feel a bit anxious (in general) and this could stem from many different reasons that you already know and understand. I talk about this scenario in His Ingredient Label by recommending that you try not to pawn of your personality as having something to do with your relationship. It could just be how you are and have nothing to do with him or your relationship. Now, if this is your situation and you have no clue as to why you are naturally an uneasy person, maybe you could benefit from speaking with someone such as your boyfriend, a friend, or even a professional. Sometimes talking things through could be the best way to help you realize what...
My partner and I agreed, "no strings attached," but now I have fallen for him. What should I do?
Ms. No Strings -
The two of you agreed that there will be no strings attached in your relationship, right? Before agreeing, you both should have probably discussed what would happen if feelings became involved and what your plans would be. This would have allowed you to feel more comfortable being able to communicate your change in feelings to him. But, odds are, you didn't. And it's okay. So, here is what you need to do now...
1. Communicate with him anyway. Let him know that your feelings are more involved and that you want more. [only say that you want more, if you want more].
On a first date, who should pay?
All alternative scenarios aside and focusing only on boy meets girl and asks her out for the first time - - allow him to pay. On the first date, most men find it important to take care of the bill as if to set precedence that he is able to provide for the woman in his life. But with this "lady power," be considerate ladies. If he likes you and asks to take you out on a date and pays the bill, be considerate that your date together may be breaking the bank for him. If he is really trying to "woo" you, he may lose track of his own budget. When you allow him to pay, pay attention to what he orders or how he welcomes you to order whatever you like. Most men who have no budget will say, order whatever you like. You will not hear that from a man who is on a budget.
I feel like I’m invisible to men. How can I get anyone to notice me?
Don’t worry if you haven’t attracted a swarm of men to your nest. It’s not the end of the world. There are many things that you should understand first. There are three easy things that if realized, can help you to better attract Mr. Right the next go round.
#1: Be Alert: I’m sure you’ve probably attracted someone although you may not have noticed. That’s the first mistake I’ve seen women make is that they don’t even recognize when they’ve caught someone’s eye. Men are everywhere and are easily attracted (hard part being…keeping their attention).
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